Higher Intercourse Via Kissing

Males are sometimes frightened about what their girlfriends or wives take into consideration their penis – Is it large enough? Exhausting sufficient? Curved or straight in ways in which rely? Does it final lengthy sufficient for her? These are the sorts of questions I get day in and time out in my position as a sexuality educator at The Kinsey Institute.

The ladies I hear from, nevertheless, are sometimes taking a look at a much bigger image of intercourse. Positive, a person’s penis and what he does with it performs a task in sexual satisfaction –  however so does the way in which he touches and kisses his accomplice and the time he spends in mattress together with her making the expertise final and really feel good right down to her core.

One factor we all know from analysis is that though many women and men crave extra frequent intercourse, additionally they need extra kissing. Simply as in sports activities the place it is simpler to concentrate on one factor at a time, do that week to make your intercourse life higher by focusing in your kissing technique.

Many {couples} get caught in kissing ruts. They kiss in the identical methods and in the identical locations (typically the lips, typically the neck) again and again. However there are millions of alternative ways to kiss your accomplice. This week, attempt to concentrate on not less than 4 new kisses. Think about, for instance:

– Kissing her softly on her eyelids whilst you’re sitting shut at a bar or laying collectively in mattress, hoping to make out or have intercourse

– Kissing her passionately in the midst of intercourse, perhaps simply after she orgasms or as issues are constructing into a beautiful frenzy. The sort of kiss is quicker, wetter and includes numerous tongue.

– Kiss her on her brow once you’re leaving or coming again dwelling. Maintain it for a great 5 seconds and hug her somewhat tighter than you usually do.

– Kiss her from her toes all the way in which as much as her interior thighs. Take your time doing so. Perhaps you probably did this months or years in the past, perhaps you by no means have. As you journey up alongside her legs, take discover of what tickles her, what soothes her, what makes her sigh. It is by no means too late to be an incredible lover.

– Kiss her toes. Sure, her toes! Sit subsequent to the couch, rub her toes Dr. Huxtable-style and – sooner or later – take one in all her toes in each of your fingers, heat it together with your breath after which kiss her toes.

– Kiss her again. Earlier than or after intercourse, spend time massaging her again (perhaps you possibly can even work out a commerce). Kiss her throughout her again. Use your fingers to hint letters or phrases in her again and have her guess what they’re. Spell out what you need to do to her. Or that you simply love her. Or one thing ridiculous and foolish. Kiss her all the way in which up or down her tailbone. Use lotion or therapeutic massage oil or your naked fingers.

Attempt to work 4 new kisses into your relationship this week and see if it would not make you are feeling nearer, excite or arouse her and, in the long run, make for higher, hotter, extra fantastic intercourse.